We met Skip and Linda in 2004, when Barbara Camph planned a surprise birthday party for Tommy. She arranged for a bunch of us to stay at a farmhouse in Normandy, where, a few days later, she and Tommy would join us for the celebration. That was the plan, and it didn’t happen that way, but that’s another story. Tom and I took the train to Rouen, and then we dawdled. Right across the street from the train station is the restaurant where Julia Child had her culinary epiphany, so we made a pilgrimage there to have a fabulous, long French lunch. Then we had to rent a car; that took as long as the lunch had. By the time we got on the road, it was early evening. Traffic was bad, and the directions to the farmhouse were terrible. One line read, “Turn left one-quarter kilometer before the church.” We got lost. Several times. When we finally arrived at the farmhouse—or what we hoped was the farmhouse—it was after one. The white, two-story farmhouse house was dark. The whole countryside was dar...